Once he's in all the way have him stay there until you get used to the full length. I told him to stop but he didnt SpacemanSpiffJul 21, The only solution is to take things slowly — very slowly — and wait for the second sphincter muscle to finally relax by itself. They make ointments, maximum pain relief creams, cooling gels, suppositories, medicated wipes, and anti-itch creams. Its kind of a process but it honestly shouldnt take too long to loosen up, I'm not saying 1 week, probably weeks you can take dick like a champ with practice everyday, but you gotta take it slow and be careful at first so you don't cause tears and injuries of the sorts. Talk to your partner about the prospect.
Don't use poppers because even though they loosen up it appears these may be your first few times bottoming, the pain you feel bottoming for the first few times are indications to stop, if you use poppers you may not feel that pain, thus causing injuries or problems for yourself.
Jul 30, 7: Things will stretch out during sex, but, after a few minutes, things will go back to normal. I'm trying to keep myself relaxed. Make sure to stay hydrated and eat tons of fiber to avoid constipation. You can feel free to take pauses if you'd like, just dont remove the plug unless it really needs Lube.